My Comprehensive Personality Profile


Sometimes I wonder how some personality profile could define me so close. I’ve done a lot of personality profiling through all means. Of course human’s characters are fluid, means they could change. But still, I am amazed every time I could nod and say “yes, yes, this is right.” This one result here is quite long, with similar things are explained several times in different ways. I’m just keeping this to myself as I think no one but me will ever read this until finish, LOL.

My Comprehensive Personality Profile

You have a feet-on-the-ground and eye-on-the-prize. You have a realistic, grounded approach to life that can be seen no matter how dreamy you are. You know how to do things, and to get things done. But you can naturally turn your back on things you deem too frivolous. You are very much concerned with things that are worthwhile–and that includes your own life. You want to do and be something worthwhile. You need to feel useful and effective in the real world in order to be satisfied with your life.

You like to pare things down, and take pleasure in the simple things in life. You can see into the future, and plan for it. You don’t mind taking things slowly, but you absolutely aim to get to the top of the mountain in life! You make your way steadily and sure-footedly; and your strength and singleness of purpose are admirable.

You can sometimes be rather lonely person, although you rarely let it show. You are often a little reserved–even standoffish. This is generally because you value all things practical, and you seldom wear your emotions on your sleeve. You are surely the most resourceful. To some, you come across as unimaginative, but you actually can be enormously creative when it comes to the material world. You are generally very capable person with a strong sense of tradition and responsibility.

You have mastered the art of making people laugh. Your sense of humor can be of the deadpan variety: you are generally excellent at keeping a straight face. Your humor can be bitingly sarcastic, too. You are not known for taking too many risks in life. You value the beaten track and things “tried and true”. But this is not to say you are stick-in-the-muds – you just simply value the hard work laid down by those who’ve been around before you. People turn to you for help when they need to really get things done. Because you have practical advice and you’ll help them organize and manage their life a little better. You are generally good with your “word”, dependable, and rather loyal person.

You are honest, reserved, circumspect, honorable and strong-willed. Quietly ambitious within the realms of the possible, you like and take on responsibility. You can work in the social domain.

Weaknesses: a sometimes bitter and mistrustful mind.

You need activity and a change of scenery often, or you feel restless. You take pride in your mental agility and your friendships. You are able to adapt quite easily to whatever environment you’re in. There is a strong need to communicate your knowledge to others and to learn. Your curiosity is endless. Take pride in your intellectual or communicative abilities without feeling the need to lord it over others or to always be “in the know”. You have a solid grasp of facts. You have a strong influence on your peers.

Social relationships are extremely important to you. You are generally charming with an easy-going manner. It is generally quite important to you that you are personally popular, to come across in a pleasant way, and to be liked and appreciated. Sometimes, vanity is part of the package. You do your best to seek peace and harmony. You are diplomatic and a veritable expert at smoothing over (and sometimes glossing over) problems. You are openhanded with others, tolerant and accepting. You have a fine eye for style and enjoy pleasing surroundings. You generally dress well and enjoy a certain amount of luxury. You are gracious, romantic, and sometimes romantically impulsive. You tend to rely on the power of attraction to bring people to you, rather than aggressively pursuing love interests. There is some vanity involved here–you are most attracted to people who express interest in you, or who respond well to your charms! You are not the type of person who overtly pursues people who appear to be indifferent to you. You are not competitive in the aggressive sense of the word, and you are not someone who loves a good chase. Instead, you work your charms and draw people to you. Your ability to attract others is very much tied up with your ego because you tend to be quite attractive.

You are enterprising and have powerful stores of energy that you can draw upon when needed. You respond to problems or challenges with a spirited and enthusiastic confidence that is admirable. You are naturally competitive, and this trait is generally well-received by others simply because it is unforced, unaffected, and sincere. You truly believe in fair play, and you seem to be in love with life. When you are expressing competitiveness and courage, it’s easy for others to smile and accept these traits as positive ones rather than being rubbed the wrong way. You have good physical vitality. Although competitive, you are not naturally combative. You may enjoy sports or games that are competitive, but not violent. Breaking the rules of a competitive game is particularly upsetting to you. You are more able than most to control your desires, aggressions, and instincts. You know how to be fair, and you expect others to be fair. As such, sneaky behaviors, uncontrolled impulses, violence, and rage are offensive to you.

There is an unmistakably dreamy, inspired, and sensitive side to you. A marked appreciation for music and the arts is present. A sensitive and spiritual dimension is in your personality. You are naturally compassionate. It is so completely natural for you to accept that there is more to the world than what is before your eyes, that you tend to presume everyone must be spiritually-inclined. Of course, you come to realize that this is not the case at some early point in your life. Your attraction to spirituality and metaphysical subjects is usually marked. These aspects favor writers, artists, and musicians. You are sensitive to those who are suffering, although you are not usually taken advantage of. You are humanitarian and may have a special connection with animals. You are not one to dominate others or assert yourself to the point of brashness. You have a fertile imagination, are full of inspiration, and very emotional – all qualities that you may use on the professional level.

You have much sexual vitality and passion. It is easy and natural for you to find a passion and pursue it, and to focus on a goal. You are not much scared of anything. You enjoy and embrace growth, especially of the psychological kind. You love a good mystery, and you are adept at solving it. You readily assign meaning to what others might consider “ordinary” events. You look for symbols, and read between the lines in most any situation. Your physical vitality is generally strong, and your body is usually able to heal quickly. You are not afraid to get your hands dirty, and you are usually quick to help others–not only with mundane tasks, but also on a spiritual or psychological level. Your insight is sharp and sometimes awe-inspiring. You are perceptive and not easily rattled or surprised in life. You are not a do-gooder nor are you a law-breaker. However, you are not afraid of the “dark side” of human nature, and you will bend the rules from time to time if you feel the need to do so. You take particular pleasure in growth and life’s lessons. You are not fond of superficiality, and are generally the first to spot pretense of any kind. You are passionate and can be intense. You have a hunger to experience more than just an “ordinary” life, and you can be quite ambitious. You are perfectionists, demanding much from yourself and reasonable amounts of effort and honesty from others.

It is easy and natural for you to be received well by others. There is a distinct air of authority and magnanimity surrounding you. The authority you project generally doesn’t offend others, generally because sincerity is sensed at the same time. Most people would describe you as natural, easy to like, and friendly.

You are not necessarily outgoing. But when you feel comfortable, you do like being the center of attention. That is, you like being in the “spotlight” in the comfort of your own homes and with family and friends. You enjoy entertaining others, and often take on the role of comic. You often feel a need to organize, and even control, your families and friends. You have an inner mission to set things right and generally like to oversee the goings-on in your little circle.

You want to create and entertain. You can be rather lazy at times and a little bossy too. But generally, though, you have a deep need to treat others fairly and justly. You require lots and lots of love and care in order to function well in the world. When you feel slighted, you can be dramatic in your emotional displays. When your pride has been hurt, you are given to big scenes and sulking. This rarely happens in public, however. You are far too concerned about your image to make splashy scenes outside the comfort of your own homes. In public, you prefer to take things in dignified ways. At home, however, you’re given to big displays of emotional drama. These scenes generally don’t last too long, however. You are often personally popular folk who are valued for your integrity and strong sense of justice. So generally, it is easy to reason with you and to make you fine again. Appealing to your well-developed sense of fairness usually works well.

You are brave and know how to take risks, have the courage of your convictions, are honest, imposing and sharp. You have a great sense of, and respect for, justice, organizational sense, selectivity in friends, but is not overly influenced by them. You have a taste for splendor.

Weaknesses: Changing and being numerous affections, emotionally demanding and proud, and brooding when attention is not forthcoming.

You have an emotional need for recognition, popularity, acknowledgement, and achievement. You can be quite charismatic. You are at your emotional best when you lead a structured and responsible life, but it can take time to get there. You may change your goals and ambitions, and/or your profession frequently in an attempt to find the perfect fit. You may worry about living up to your image, or the expectations of your family. Decisions may be too emotionally biased, or you might act on emotional whims far too often. Learning to set your own heartfelt goals is the challenge here, as it is unlikely you will find true happiness if you follow or adopt the expectations of others, which you are especially sensitive to.

You can be precocious, animated, and passionate. You seek emotional excitement in your life. Although you often project a brave and tough image, your skin isn’t as thick as you’d have others believe. You tend to put up defenses due to your emotionally vulnerable and excitable disposition. Unrest is characteristic, as you are bored by routine and become easily frustrated when life is “too easy”. There’s a buzz of energy surrounding you, and you tend to meet with many conflicts in your life. With the opposition, the conflict tends to be lived through relationships. The passions are quite raw, especially in youth.

If you can channel your excitable energy into sports or some other competitive field, it’s all the better. Although you can be a decidedly amiable and interesting person, others always seem to sense your boundaries. Something is bound to get you worked up, and it’s not always clear what that something will be. Your bluntness can be both appreciated and considered offensive, depending on your audience! You are eager to make a personal impact on those around you. It is possible that you are too eager in this sense, and you come across as self-absorbed and difficult to stomach. Patience is definitely not your strong point! Your responses are quick, and you are a passionate person who is usually quite courageous although your energy is sporadic and sometimes wasted. You are sexually responsive.

You are very emotional and are driven to do things by your emotions. Sometimes you do not think things over or through in a certain situation. You are irascible and easily fired up. But you mostly control your feelings because you have a sense of duty, of self-esteem and are prudent. You can concentrate on a long-term task, manual or intellectual. You persevere and are serious in everything you do.

You have intense emotions and passionate feelings. Your love life or marital life may be riddled with emotional scenes, jealousy, and possessiveness from your partner because you attract intense partners.

You are unhappily influenced by the family. You are probably loved insufficiently by your father, but on the contrary received more love from your mother. So you are susceptible, have superficial sensitivity and are sometimes irascible.

You are enthusiastic, humorous, and sometimes moralistic. You have strong opinions, and often shares them! You are a democrat, philosopher, tolerant, and respectful of laws. You are interested in foreign places and learning more languages. You always believe that everything teaches you something.

Your intelligence is geared towards ways of making money, becoming rich. You have a very practical mind and intelligence, seeing the obvious, most logical answer to any predicament often before others. You don’t like to be put on the spot or pushed into talking or coming to a conclusion. Studies are similar–you need to work at your own steady pace. You can be quite one-track minded at times, not very happy with multi-tasking, and often quite fixed in your opinions. Sensual stimuli are more relevant to you than abstract concepts.

You are intelligent, have big ideas. You are also tolerant and have a strong sense of justice. You have good judgment, good sense, and have your feet on the ground. You have the “gift of the gab”, and like to speak, you also like literature. You are erudite and will normally be successful socially.

You are perspicacious, ingenious: You bind intelligence and originality together with genius. You like literature. You are spontaneous in your friendships and know how to handle the situations that arise.

You have interest for emotions and values, exchange and sharing with others.
You will try to win your lover’s heart by displaying self-control, presence of mind, and responsible behavior. You want your lover to know you are a goal-oriented, witty, savvy, and controlled. Nobody can get the best of you. You want your lover to see just how competent you are. You like some measure of predictability in your relationships as you are cautious in love.

You project an aura of competency and your loner-like behavior can be attractive, in a cool way. You don’t go gaa-gaa over love, or at least you don’t express as much. Your lover may complain you are a little too practical and deliberate. Certainly, you can come across as lacking in warmth and spontaneity. But truth is, you just appear to be that way on the surface during the first phase of relationship. While after, you can be rather a romantic soul who yearn for a partner to share your life with. You are conservative and willing to commit. So you are attracted to serious, goal-oriented lover. You are a little shy in matters of the heart, but you don’t want your lover to know it. If your lover wants to know where your relationship is headed, he will be mighty pleased with you because you plan ahead in love, and, you will let him know exactly where your relationship is headed. You are practical and realistic. You want to impress your lover with the things you do. Your lover needs to appreciate this “saving for a rainy day” attitude of yours, and be aware that you want to show it in a quiet way.

Tangible expressions of love and affection are important to you. Your tastes are usually “simply extravagant”, well-defined, strong, and something you are proud of. Some might feel you have a talent for finding items of value and good taste. You are attracted to items of quality. You may use generosity for your own benefit–in other words, you might give gifts with expectation of reward. Your neck and upper chest are erogenous zones, and your voice is unusually attractive. You generally don’t jump into a new relationship. If you do, your feelings grow gradually. A partner who makes you feel safe and secure is ideal for you. Once committed, your love is long lasting and sincere. You are faithful for life and have strong values so others will find it hard to sway you in this area. Sensual, the world of touch and smell is most appealing to you. Complex or mysterious partner is not as intriguing to you as a simple and genuine one.

Your professional life is unstable. You have a taste for the arts, are a dreamer, easily influenced, and romantic. You are emotional and very sensitive.

Romantic, creative, gentle, and adaptable, you naturally express the finer qualities of mysterious and dreamy in your love relationships. Your imagination is rich and your fantasy world well-developed. You are turned off by rudeness and crudeness, and are drawn to beauty in its many forms. You are very giving and generous, but may be a little on the submissive side, or sometimes downright lazy, failing to take the initiative when situations call for it.

Your emotion and sex life is powerful and rich. You live out truly passionate love.

You love to challenge yourself to do the impossible. You throw yourself into what you decide to do with concentrated energy and awesome willpower. You make formidable opponents, although often quietly so. You keep your cool and your equilibrium on the surface. But below the surface may be another story, and you are unlikely to easily let people in. You have the potential to exploit others–you see through others, and rely heavily on your gut feelings. Your sexual stamina is thought to be the strongest of all. Sometimes, you are attracted to taboos, and your fantasies may involve blowing the taboos to smithereens! You enjoy scenarios in which the “other” is giving in to you, wants you completely, and will do absolutely anything for you. And, your sexual appeal is strong enough that you generally do get what you want.

You find it difficult to share your partner. You have a black-or-white philosophy of life. You are the people who say, “Just choose!” You really are not comfortable with compromise–what kind of satisfaction could you possibly get from compromise? So your partner should really be committed to you only and you could be coolly walk away without drama when your partner is not so into you.

Real living is all about accepting challenges and making changes. You constantly test yourself, and, often, others. You make all kinds of rules and goals, just for the personal satisfaction that comes from achieving or mastering them. Your survival instincts are strong, and you embrace your own animal nature when you are all alone with yourself, without guilt.

You have a provocative quality to you. This quality is usually most evident in youth, though it is often carried over into adulthood in more subtle, controlled ways. You sometimes have low self-esteem and can become mighty twisted. Instead of beating yourself up, you turn self-loathing outward, and end up manipulating others and feeling resentful. While you are constantly striving to bring fairness to the world, you sometimes know that life simply isn’t fair.

All your energy is put into the work life. You love research. So you could be a lab worker, doctor, police officer, teacher, and specializing in hospital, or hospice work.

You are ambitious, have a great capacity for work, have self-confidence and go to the end of your plans.

You represent expansion and grace. You attract the most good-fortune when you are tolerant and fair, inventive, impartial, and cooperative. You value people and personal freedom most. You want to show unique perspective or skills. You are open to new methods and progress. You have great tolerance and humanitarianism.

You like and believe in justice. You are an optimist and are generous. Professional success is rapid and should be supported by the family you build. Family life is very important for you. You like comfort and well-being at home. You know how to entertain in style and above all with pleasure.

You know what’s going on at a glance. You thirst after knowledge and are a good organizer. You are very independent, like your freedom of action, are a non-conformist. You are a very agreeable company to others and are always in demand or sought after.

You have your own way of thinking about a subject and have your own ideas about things. You respect society and its rules guide your conduct.

Weaknesses: hard, unforgiving, rigorous, and sometimes inhuman when your code of conduct is violated.

You can be self-conscious in new situations, especially when young. Your manner is somewhat cautious and guarded. First reactions to new ideas or plans are reticent and somewhat negative, but these are only first reactions. You can be methodical, patient, somewhat distrustful, but polite. You speak little at first and do not waste energy unnecessarily. You have a good memory and sense of organization, like to do things well. You are never slapdash and have a strong sense of responsibility.

You are shy, delicate but proud, bold and lively.

You have a lot of flair. You can do many things well. So you could be unreliable at work sometimes, especially when the work doesn’t fulfill your sense of contentment because you’re always ready for change. You must have an out-of-the-ordinary job you love, in which case all goes well. Otherwise, you will often change jobs to search for the ideal job you want.

You have transcendental liberty, a non-egoistic liberty. You are discerning, wise and sensible.

You prefer not to attach too much value on money, but if this is overdone, there can be quite a few problems in life concerning money and ownership. You might make money through artistic pursuits, but must avoid the potential pitfalls of putting too much faith in ideas that don’t have enough grounding in reality.

You have a lot of presence. There is something about you that tells the world that you are not the type to be pushed around. Your manner commands respect, and in some cases, fear. You can be quiet or loud, but you always seem powerful and determined. People either love or hate you. You rarely go through life unnoticed. In fact, you are confused when faced with the fact that you get such strong reactions from others. You seem to look right through people, seeing through superficiality. This can be quite intimidating to some, and intriguing to others. You, in dealing with others, look for answers by reading between the lines. Surface details are discarded when you are getting a feel for people and situations around you.

You value your privacy so much, it can border on paranoia. You have a strong need to control your environment and are expert at strategy. You rarely will blow your chances with impatience, as you plan out your moves carefully and deliberately, relying on your awesome ability to feel out others and situations. You are drawn to down-to-earth, natural partners. Reliability in your partner is very important. You generally look for complete commitment and have little patience with flighty partners.

Nothing is left to chance, everything is calculated, dissected slowly and methodically, twice rather than once, in peace and quiet by yourself. You are introverted, and don’t speak about your plans until they are underway.

You leaved the family home reasonably young. So you like liberty, want a life that is out-of-the-ordinary, and certainly one that does not correspond with mum and dad’s.

You are full of tenderness and sentimentality.

You have ability to command, know how to take up your responsibilities at work. Weak point: you are prone to headaches, or fevers.

Your learning shapes your identity.

You have fertile imagination. You are easily influenced. You like travel.

All the leadership qualities are in you: authority, sense of organization, initiative, and intelligence. You are a fighter.

You search for social and intellectual security.

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My animal personality: OWL

My animal personality: OWL

You are analytical and thoughtful. You prefer to work alone. In private life you are loyal and responsible.


Owl Characteristics
Eloquent Sincere Conservative

The owl is the tranquil face of the bird personalities. A creature of great integrity, its quiet demeanor accords it an air of mystery and diffidence. It is known as the serene, wise observer of human society. Always well groomed, it is a noble individual with elegantly chiseled features that border on the fine edge of beauty and homeliness. Its large eyes are often framed by handsome eyeglasses.

The Owl Personality is Sober

Owls have developed quite a reputation for intelligence, but it’s really their calm and insightful nature that gives this impression. Instead of an intellectual approach to life they use their deeper spiritual senses to guide them, and like their nocturnal cohorts, the bats, have a deeply philosophical bent.

Spending much of their time in solitary pursuits, owls like to hole up in a quiet working environment and venture out only when necessary. They are not a playful creature. Only engaging in exercise and sport in order to keep physically fit, they avoid the more gregarious animal personalities like dogs, dolphins, and sea lions.

Owls are not without their assertive side however, and they won’t hesitate to use their razor-sharp tongue to settle an argument. Never the aggressor in a confrontation, they fight only when their survival or honor is at stake and have no desire for a prolonged or physical struggle. Owls espouse nonviolence, think logically, and argue persuasively.

The Owl Personality’s Career

As an astute observer of human nature, owls are eminently suited to be judges or diplomats. Their trustworthiness and dependability find them in positions of responsibility, perhaps as bank managers, heads of state, or religious leaders. A conscientious worker, an owl takes responsibilities seriously, and when it accepts the burden of public office it does so with the grace and skill typical of the species.

With an enormous capacity for hard work, owls achieve great things in almost any field they choose. This success doesn’t always translate into financial rewards, but invariably satisfies their need to impart their wisdom to others.

Love & Friendship

Unlike the terrestrial creatures, the owl is not a prisoner of its sex-drive, but with its air of refined sensuality is hardly shy about throwing itself into the physical aspects of a relationship. When it focuses its sharp ardor on its lover it ignites a steamy and animated encounter.

The owl views sex as a complement to its relationships and certainly not as a key component. It would do well to recognize the significance of physical affection outside the bedroom, for its partner is often starved for non-sexual reassurance.

The owl considers itself to be excellent company and is quite happy spending time in its own active mind, which slows its search for a long-term partner. Drawn to people who match its sedate disposition, the owl finds the noble swan to be a physical and emotional match. But achieving long-lasting relationships can prove difficult, for a suitable mate must also match in a deeply spiritual way. Perhaps that’s why the owl finds that its nocturnal companions, the fox and bat are able to fill its complex needs.

Best Mates for a Owl

Famous Owl Personalities
Nelson Mandela
Oprah Winfrey
Abraham Lincoln

You are confident, eccentric and sociable. Unusual and unconventional, people cannot help but to be drawn to your quirky personality. You’re one of a kind!!

I am Generalist and Friendly When I Want to be


If people are classified into generalist or specialist, then I’m definitely a generalist.
My interests are wide so I could talk to people from different backgrounds about different topics, maths, languages, ITs. religions, entertainments (music, movie, drama, show, dance, etc), medical, geography, history, economy, philosophy, traveling, art, psychology, science, animal, policy, mythology, education, etc. I like everything.
Since I’m not the type to judge, I am open to talk about anything to anyone without judging.
That’s why I don’t like to be judged by other people.

I have my beliefs, my values, my own ways of thinking, my right and wrong compass, but I never try to inflict mine upon others.
Because in the end, right and wrong is subjective.
Even when it is not, it is down to every person’s choice.
After all, we carry our own weight of choices of right or wrong. So why need to force it upon others?
Or sometimes getting mad when our values are not accepted.
Or hating people who are not in our zone.
I thought it’s pretty ridiculous. People could even start a war for that.
But well again, people are different so it’s their choice.

What I’m saying is, I am a good listener and quite a good talker.
But once I feel uncomfortable in the talking situation, I’d rather not talk.
For example, when people start bashing others just for the fun of it or when people think they’re higher than other people.
Because I am a person who believe everyone of us are equals.
Jobs, degrees, knowledge, riches, rankings, competencies, lifestyles, races, religions, hobbies are not the things that should divide us or classify us into better or worse.
For example, just because you play golf, to me you’re NOT someone on a higher level. Puff!

Of course I notice that my kind of mindset is not usual to what’s accepted in the society who likes the idea of social status and really enjoys to differentiate respect based on that.
So if you’re someone who are not so eager to be respected more and treated differently, you could come to me to talk. LOL
I’m open for anything.

The person in me has never changed no matter what age I am, my relationship status, what language I’m talking, my job position, my level of income, the knowledge I’m learning, the degree I’m having, my lifestyle, or even overall appearance, etc.
I’m true to the bone.
So likewise, you don’t need to treat me different.
If you don’t like that, well, it’s your choice.
I’m not changing for you to like me.

I was disrespected few times, for those reasons, job position, relationship status, level of income, overall appearance, lifestyle, you name it. I just can’t say or do anything about it.
It’s their choice.
That’s why often time I choose to be alone.
I just come to people I’m comfortable with.
Most of my friends are people who are not so quick to judge or differentiate.

I met 8 new persons recently, different race, religion, job, interest, education, relationship status, countries of origin, and I could match them all.
See, I could be friendly when I want to.
And of course if they want to as well.
Because it takes two to tango.

People who are already judging me, ah she is so quiet, she must not like this, she seems so unapproachable, she must have high standard, she is difficult, her hobby is not the same as mine, talking to her might be boring, she is not up to my level, thus choose not to approach or talk to me or shun me out when I’m trying to talk to them, would not discover anything about me, how wide my interest is, or how deep layered my personality is.
And it’s their choice.


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My Personality Profile



Entrepreneurial and progressive, you are ever-striving, heading for the top, and enjoying an enterprising, ambitious and determined personality to do things well, and an unyielding dedication to your plan until the goals are achieved.

You bounce back easily from setbacks and can overcome any adversities or obstacles thrown in your way.

You make a good performer, but at the same time you can be quite intense and serious.

Your artistic talent is emphasized in the performing arts where sensitivity and understanding for people and situations is called for.

You can easily gain high respect in the community, being understanding of the views of others, and you often tend to achieve your goals.

When balanced, you are compassionate and emotionally secure. You are also a natural healer, with leadership qualities and the ability to genuinely empathize. You also radiate love and spiritual happiness to those around you.

By becoming aware of your emotions, you can gain control over them rather than have your emotions control your life. And the reward is great because then you show vast depth of understanding while keeping your emotions checked.

You were born with extra-ordinary drive and determination. You are a born leader. You insist on your right to make up your own mind; you demands freedom of thought and action, and do not let anything or anyone stand in your way once you are committed to your goal.

You assume the responsibility to be the protector and provider for those you love. You demand respect and attention and become irritated and even domineering when important things do not go your way.

You are exceptionally creative and original and possess a touch of the unusual. Your approach to problems is unique and you have the courage to wander from the beaten path or the traditional templates of thoughts and deeds. You can be impatient with your shortcomings and those of others.

Sometimes you are concerned with your status and foster the appearance of success and self-satisfaction. The need to appear well off propels you to strive for growth, success and the finer things of life.

You perform best when you left to your own devices. Ideally you should own your own business and be your own boss. You should hold fast to your life’s dream and work with the determination you possess to realize it. You can become overly stressed by your driven nature. You need to be careful about the food you eat and maintain an exercise program you enjoy. Competition sports are often a healthy outlet for a person with your drive, particularly sports involving running and swimming.

More often than not a person like you will achieve much in life as long as the drive, creativity, originality and pioneering spirit are fully employed!

You are highly intuitive and creative. Your mind think in pictures. You seem to draw information and ideas from out of the sky.

Your intuition is your gift, along with a powerful drive to know the Oneness of all things. You are so driven by spiritual pursuits that no matter what you do in life, the world of spirit and philosophy will be central to your daily behavior. You feel linked with the larger universal forces, and nothing will change that.

You have a fine mind and keen insights, but these do not come as a result of logic or rational thought. You are more likely to direct your life by inspiration, rather than by calculated reflections.

On some level, you know that you are in the hands of destiny, and that you must surrender to the higher powers that shape your life. You are usually a late bloomer. Your early and middle 30s tend to be years spent in apprenticeship and slow development. During this period, you can become frustrated with your progress, or the apparent lack of it.

You need to develop faith. You are a highly charged person with much to do, but you must develop character and sound judgment before you begin to tap your true potential. Just as a tree needs roots to grow tall, so need you to develop depth of character in order to begin to expand in the ways you desire and ultimately envision.

Your highly developed intuition makes you a wonderful counselor, healer, or health practitioner. You have a gift for inspiring people. Many people admire you without you knowing it. You are a visionary, and others sense your wisdom.

You are acutely sensitive and easily influenced by your surroundings. You love beauty and harmony. You also crave social interaction and much attention. You can be very emotional, often experiencing extremes of happiness and sadness. You are usually too easily hurt. You also get depressed easily and feel the lack of confidence during times you are in a dark mood.

Despite your sensitivity, you possess leadership abilities. You are modest, diplomatic and polite. You have also the ability to persuade, and can be quite forceful.

Your high sensitivity to others makes you compassionate, kind, and gentle. You have an opportunity for fame and success as long as you do not pursue either as your gods. You need to look for ways to help others and convey a larger message, with which you were blessed. This will bring you the material and social fruits you desire.

You are a free spirit. You love change, adventure, and excitement. You love your freedom. Like a bird that needs its wings to live, you cannot exist without it. Freedom is the nucleus around which your life revolves. You need it for your very survival. By using freedom properly, you are able to explore and develop all of your varied talents. You will meet many types of people and travel great distances. Freedom is the atmosphere necessary for you to bring forth your many talents.

You are capable of doing almost anything, and probably quite well. Only by avoiding the imprisonment of illusory security are you able to bring forth your abilities.

You are unusually adaptable. In fact, change is a blessing for you. In the same way, you needs challenge and variety. You hate the routine of life; being stuck is a catastrophe for you. You become miserable when you are held back or held down.

The taste and texture and color of life have an overpowering allure for you. From childhood, you dream of seeing foreign lands, experiencing the sensual and the exotic. You want to try everything at least once in life. All of life is a playground for your senses.

But this can get you into trouble. You may fail to respect your natural limits, either biologically or socially. Any sort of boundary is anathema to you, which can blind you to your natural limits.

You are gifted in your ability to communicate. Your facility with words is almost limitless. You can be a salesman, politician, lawyer, public relations person, and minister. You also possess the talent to share and advance new ideas. You are talented with your hands. You love the new and untried. Your field is the frontier. You are a bit of a gambler, and often plays for very high stakes. All of this combines to give you a youthful enthusiasm, which others find infectious and attractive.

You like to work with others, but needs to perform your task un-encumbered by the restraints of others.
You are a clever and a quick thinker, but your thought processes – like your life in general – can be unorganized and scattered. You must stay grounded and focused if you want to be successful.

Self-discipline and setting healthy limits is the key to your success in virtually every area of your life. Ironically, you will find that as you learn to set appropriate limits on yourself, you will develop more self-mastery and realize even greater freedom.

This is especially true when it comes to finishing what you start. Your tendency is to give up once you have got a project or job under control because you grow bored quickly. You start to fantasize about a new challenge, or the rewards of your great accomplishment, long before the work is finished.

You desire the whole world. You are aware that you have many talents that can bring much success. But that success depends on your willingness to choose certain areas to concentrate on, and to bring them to perfection.

You want peace and harmony in all aspects of your life. You want to devote your life to someone or something. You fall in love easily. You are extremely sensitive and emotional. You can be sentimental and you cry at sad stories. You need friends and society.

You appreciate the refinements of life. You desire comfort and security. You have also refined taste, and can be a connoisseur. You love music and possess a good deal of musical talent.

Your sensitivity is actually a symptom of your highly developed intuition, but you must learn to trust it. You are a gentle soul and you shy away from confrontation as long as possible. You experience a battle within when you do not believe you can handle a situation; this may have a paralyzing effect on you.

Sometimes you prefer to give in when you should assert yourself. You must learn to be more decisive. Very often, you are afraid to use your own power in the face of someone else’s aggressiveness. You incorrectly perceive yourself to be in a weaker position; You may ultimately give in merely to avoid a fight.

Conversely, you are extremely diplomatic and tactful. You like to accomplish things through quiet persuasion. You dislike force.

At times, you have to fight uncertainty and doubt. You need to develop confidence and a willingness to stand up for what you believes to be right.

You need to feel in command of important undertakings, and resists supportive roles. You seek the forefront and the limelight.
In contrast, you can also function best in a supportive role, guiding the more public person in quiet, unobtrusive, yet essential ways.

You appear strong and powerful. You have an impressive personality and can influence and even intimidate through sheer force. You have natural authority. Your competence and enthusiasm attract people with resources.
You radiate confidence. People defer to you because they sense your sureness and effectiveness. You also exudes a kind of controlled benevolence. People sense that you are generous, once you are convinced of the worthiness of the cause.

It is important for you to dress well. You radiate a kind of raw power and able-ness, which needs to be refined and enhanced by your clothing. You may even dress a bit flashy, because that will not harm you. Quality is among your highest priorities, and should reflect in your clothing.

You can be prone to indigestion, ulcers, and heart disease due to your reckless eating and your propensity to be workaholics.

Your Achilles heel is your capacity for an egocentric attitude. The negative side of your personality can cause you to be ruthless, greedy, and intensely lonely.

Conversely, you can be spontaneous and excited. You are essentially warm and jovial. In your heart of hearts, you want everyone to be as excited and as happy as you. Those who are around you often sense this, and your coworkers and other employees usually like you.

Throughout your life you will be concerned with the welfare of others. You will make your home the focus of your life, and fill your world with as much beauty as possible. In your later years you will find yourself surrounded by friends and family. This will ensure your joy and contentment.

As you mature, you will become increasingly concerned with the well-being of family, friends, and community. You will be drawn to the role as healer, counselor, and teacher – due to your growing ability to give comfort and sound advice to those in need.

You naturally assume the role of patriarch or matriarch of those in your care, no matter how old they are. You become more responsible and protective, and you may well become involved in environmental protection, volunteer work or politics.

You are naturally idealistic and strive to realize those ideals as you grow in maturity and in personal resources.
Your careful and balanced approach to business and financial matters provide you with sound and secure success later in life.
This provides an outstanding financial foundation for the future.

In addition, this promises an old age surrounded by loved ones. You could eventually have the close relationships that you have strived for most of your life.

Facing some issues, you retreat into some safe haven within yourself and hope you will not have to deal with the issue at hand. Yet, the clarity and analytical abilities of your mind are sufficient to provide you with insight into the problem, and a clear path to its solution.

You have to work at confronting yourself and the issues you face unemotionally and calmly. You can be engulfed in the emotional aspects of the issue, which clouds your mind and prevent you from using your clarity to find an answer.
But once you get past the emotion you will find an answer by yourself.

You will have luck in matters involving risk and new ventures. It will shine for you in times of change and even chaos and upheaval.
You will also have an edge when connected to matters of romance.

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The Potential in an INFJ Relationship




For some personality types, relationships can come about quite easily; but for an INFJ, relationships can be significantly more difficult to initiate and traverse. This particular Myers-Briggs personality type is defined as being introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. INFJ is a rare but intriguing personality to come across and even more unusual to find in the male gender. In fact, it is estimated that only about one to three percent of the population exhibits INFJ. When it comes to dating and relationships, INFJ individuals have their work cut out – as does a prospective partner of this personality type.


INFJ Characteristics


The standard traits of INFJ individuals (introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging) create only a basic template for this personality. The nickname for this type of disposition is “The Protector.” Being an observant and compassionate soul, individuals with this kind of persona will go to great lengths to avoid hurting or upsetting others and are very protective of those they care about. Although easy to approach due to their warmth and gentility, “protectors” are also perfectionists who strive to create order and flawlessness in their worlds. This character type tends to be very creative and artistic, especially in the field of writing due to their profound understanding of emotion and keen eye for detail. Being an INFJ is as close as a human might come to being empathic. This kind of individual is sensitive, perceptive, and highly likely to stick with a gut instinct about a person or situation; and their instincts are usually right. As prone as this character is to picking up on others’ feelings, intentions, and general personality traits, this particular individual will be less likely to offer up their own feelings and may be accused of “holding back” in their relationships, primarily romantic ones.


Their penchant for self-reliance can be an issue, especially in a relationship. An INFJ is so used to relying on his or her own instincts (using the “I’m always right” justification) that they may have a tendency to dismiss others’ opinions, sometimes even before they have a chance to listen to the other party. This can be exceptionally problematic when a partner picks up on this unbalance and questions his or her value in the relationship. Their natural attention to detail and perfectionism leads to less fun in a teamwork situation. In fact, INFJs often prefer to work alone because, in their opinion, that’s the only way that everything will be done to their high standard. In a relationship, this persona may become annoyed with a partner who introduces chaos to their carefully crafted environment. Turning the tables, INFJs can irritate partners by frequently striving for perfection which often overflows into the relationship itself. A “protector” can be controlling in that he or she takes to planning and organizing well in advance and will often make decisions single-handedly. This stubborn character will frequently reassess the priorities in their life to ensure that they live up to their full potential, though rarely will they feel as though they have achieved this high goal.


INFJ Relationships


For the right partner, a “protector” can make a wonderful spouse and parent. Although easily able to move on past a relationship that clearly is not working, this individual will be completely devoted to the right person and is most likely in search of a long-term relationship. The “protector” is very gentle and makes a good listener. Their trustworthy intuition can also be a wonderful trait for an individual who needs/appreciates the reassurance that INFJ individuals can provide. A relationship with a protective personality like this can feel one-sided because the “protector” takes charge and often makes decisions without consulting others. They also show so much interest in others’ feelings, concerns, and desires yet they rarely share their own. Although seeming to always be the rock-like force for others to confide in, “protectors” are easily hurt (likely due to the fact that it takes a lot of time and trust to share their inner selves with others).


An individual who seeks a well-organized and closely-knit family would do well to partner up with an INFJ. This personality will usually have very close, loving, and nurturing relationships with their children as well as their spouse. Although idealistic and reserved, this persona has strong values that will not easily be tossed aside. This trait, paired with a constant need to think and plan towards the future, can make for a steady and reliable partner and future parent.


Compatible Personality Types


There are four primary Myers-Briggs personalities that seem to get along best in INFJ relationships. One such personality is the ENFP (extravert, intuitive, feeling, and perceiving). This personality shares intuitiveness yet the extravert trait is a nice complement to the “protector” persona. ENTP (extravert, intuitive, thinking, perceiving) is another personality type that gets along well with the INFJ for the same reasons. INTJ (introvert, intuitive, thinking, judging) displays many of the primary personality traits as the INFJ and will likely be more understanding and accepting of an INFJ’s “ways.” By the same logic, the fourth most suitable personality type is another INFJ.


Relationship Guidance for the INFJ


Traditionally, this persona finds it difficult to initiate relationships which can result in very few serious relationships and long bouts of loneliness. If this sounds familiar, then you’ll know that this scenario is usually related to the difficulty you have sharing your inner self and your deep-seated need to put others’ happiness before your own. Once you snag the attention of a potential partner, your compassionate and easy-to-approach nature often helps to bring them in for closer scrutiny. One who passes the test, so to speak, will likely cause you to bend over backwards (of your own accord) to see them happy. Just remember that your own strong desire to please a partner shouldn’t outweigh your own desires and values.


As a “protector,” it can be difficult to push aside your instincts and listen to the views of your significant other, especially if you truly feel that you are right. Even the most laid-back partner will appreciate having his or her opinion listened to and considered seriously. Your desire to jump into planning-mode may also make a potential partner uneasy. While this particular trait may be seemingly impossible to ignore, consider a compromise in which you can kick-start a bit of early planning yet hold off on any decision-making until you’ve had a chance to discuss options with your significant other. This is paramount in any situation that affects your partner and/or your relationship.


Tips for Dating an INFJ Personality


A prospective partner needs to understand the INFJ’s need to take it slowly when revealing their inner self. It can be difficult to be around someone who so easily seems to understand you, especially when they give so little back in the way of opening up. Patience and an appreciation for your INFJ’s passionate and enthusiastic nature will go a long way in the relationship. Eventually you will crack the stubborn shell of your “protector” and get to know the creative, sensitive, and compassionate soul that lies beneath. You will find that your INFJ partner has high expectations of you. For the most part, these will be reasonable expectations but don’t be afraid to speak up if you begin to feel that your partner is laying the pressure on too thickly. If you begin to feel overwhelmed with your significant other’s need to seek control, take the chance to gently remind your partner that you deserve to have your opinions and thoughts heard. Ultimately, don’t take your partner’s feelings about you lightly; if they are willing to stick around then you should know that they genuinely care for you and will eventually let you through each layer of their being.


Your INFJ partner easily picks up on the moods of others around them and often seeks a way to make everyone happy. This can be exhausting for your companion, so respect their inevitable need to “recharge” after a social situation. Some quiet time at home will usually do the trick. Although your partner may appear to be a social butterfly, remember that at heart he or she will struggle to divulge their own feelings to others, even your friends; so don’t be too upset if your partner doesn’t instantly open up to your pals. Also, too much spontaneity and impulsiveness can send up a red flag to your partner, making it difficult for them to view you as a stable, long-term partner. Ultimately, this may lead to an inadvertent relationship sabotage.


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The Best Career for Your Personality Type – by Truity

Looking at the infographic, the best careers for INFJ are School Counselor, Writer, Interior Designer, Pediatrician or Veterinarian.

I’m not sure that’s what I really want to do.

I like being a teacher more than a school counselor; and I did have a dream to become a doctor, but not as Pediatrician or Veterinarian even though I love pets.

Seeing careers of each personality I kinda think there are several that suit me also, like Surgeon, Scientist, or Psychologist.

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