Don’t Generalize As Excuse!


  Don’t generalize as excuse! Some people generalize some negative actions saying everyone behave the same. I beg to differ. You’re just excusing your behavior and framing others. One example is the saying that every men is bound to be attracted to several women. So some men use this statement to justify their actions ofContinue reading “Don’t Generalize As Excuse!”

My Frustration on People Smoking in Public


  Honestly, I don’t care if people are smoking as long as they keep the smoke to themselves. It’s your choice to smoke for whatever reason you choose. You may say to yourself smoking doesn’t really make you sick or we are all going to die anyway whether we smoke or not. It is yourContinue reading “My Frustration on People Smoking in Public”

Tindakan Kriminal di Facebook


  Macam-macam saja tindak kriminal orang lewat facebook. Ada yang menghack facebook orang terus bilang minjem duit sama teman-temannya di facebook. Ada yang bikin akun tandingan dengan memanfaatkan akses ke facebook seseorang, mendownload foto-foto dari akun asli dan memuatnya ke akun palsu, lalu meng-add teman-temannya di facebook. Entah untuk tujuan apa. Ada juga aku dengerContinue reading “Tindakan Kriminal di Facebook”

Don’t Judge and Generalize!


    One of the things I dislike is when the society judge the quality of something greater by the value of something small. For example, when a muslim does a crime, people say how could a muslim do that or even worse, judging Islam as the culprit behind his action or generalize that allContinue reading “Don’t Judge and Generalize!”

Menanggapi Saran


Dulu waktu sekolah di IHS – Erasmus University Rotterdam, universitas sering mengirim email link ke sebuah survei tentang apa yang dirasakan selama perkuliahan dan kendala atau kekurangan apa di universitas yang perlu dibenahi. Saat itu, saya mengisi sejujurnya pendapat, saran, kritik, masukan yang saya rasakan. Itu tidak mesti artinya buruk karena sebaik apapun kondisi disanaContinue reading “Menanggapi Saran”

Krisis Moral di Indonesia


Terlalu banyak orang yang melanggar antrian dan peraturan lalu lintas di negeri ini. Hampir setiap hari saat saya mengendari motor di jalan raya, menemui pengemudi mobil yang mengambil jalan untuk memotong tanpa peduli ada saya yang sedang mengemudi di jalan yang berlawanan tersebut. Di jalan dua ruas untuk arah yang berbeda, jika dia mengambil jalanContinue reading “Krisis Moral di Indonesia”

Public Display of Affection


Well, it’s not a scene in drama, but the real life married couple who shows love for each other which convince me that true love does exist. So my reaction to public display of affection from married couple is “Aww, so sweet!” Love is in the air and it makes you feel the love also,Continue reading “Public Display of Affection”

Ramadhan is a Blessing for Non-Smoker


I love Ramadhan and wish for every months to be Ramadhan. There are many things to miss once Ramadhan is over. But today, I just realize one more thing during Ramadhan which I would miss. It is the blessing that no one smoke in public during the day of the fasting month. Today, as RamadhanContinue reading “Ramadhan is a Blessing for Non-Smoker”

Beware of Unclear Rules


Sometimes we Indonesians are accustomed or told to do things, obey rules, so we rarely question or debate is it the right thing to do or is it a fair rule to obey. And the one who make rules likes to make certain things fall into unclear “grey” areas by adding: … with few conditionalContinue reading “Beware of Unclear Rules”